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Haruki Murakami about life

1. Despite your best efforts, people are going to be hurt when it's time for them to be hurt. 2. Taking crazy things seriously is a serious waste of time. 3. No matter what they wish for, no matter how far they go, people can never be anything but themselves. That's all. 4. What makes… Continue reading Haruki Murakami about life

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One day a scorpion asked the turtle to transport it across the river. The tortoise refused, but the scorpion begged her. "Well, all right, - the turtle agreed, - just give me your word that you will not sting me." Scorpio gave his word. Then the turtle planted it on its back and swam across… Continue reading Nature…

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Finding your loved one or a relationship…

If you want to find the love of your life, start being aware of your use of the word love. Saying and thinking I want to find the love of my life and not I want a relationship is fundamental. You find what you are looking for. "Being in a relationship" - is a marketing… Continue reading Finding your loved one or a relationship…

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You could have…

A knight was going through the desert. On his long way, he lost his horse, helmet, and armor. Only the sword remained. The knight was hungry, and he was thirsty. Suddenly he saw a lake in the distance. He collected all the remaining forces and went to the water. But near the lake sat a… Continue reading You could have…

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Falling in love.

Love is an emotion in action. You can learn how to feel and cultivate your love... First, learn and know the different situations of love. Learn how to recognize them when you are feeling them. Then you go and share your love with others. A love between 2 people can only begin if the interaction… Continue reading Falling in love.

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The peace

Once a man, tired of the hustle and bustle of the city, decided to find peace in his soul and calm his heart. For this, he decided to stay in a quiet and peaceful place, where nothing would distract him from meditation and reflection. The city was too noisy and he decided to go into… Continue reading The peace

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Love is…

Love is the most powerful emotion a human being can experience. The strange thing is, that almost nobody knows what love is. Why is it so difficult to find love? The word "love" is used and abused for the expression of different sets of feelings. It is used as an expression of affection towards someone… Continue reading Love is…

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I asked God …

  I asked God to take away my pride and God told me "No". He said that pride is not taken away. It has to be rejected. I asked God to cure my daughter, bedridden, and God told me "No". He said that patience is the result of trials. They do not give it, they… Continue reading I asked God …

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Parents gift

One day an old wise man was walking along the road, looking at nature and admired the spring bright colors. Then he saw a man carrying an immense load on his shoulders. It was noticeable how his legs were weakened by such a weight. "Why do you condemn yourself to such hard work and suffering?"… Continue reading Parents gift

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Directions to work with fears.

Know that the greatest fear is fear of the unknown. Seek to meet the unknown with courage and a sense of adventure. - Jonathan Lockwood Huie The world is vague and we cannot do anything about it. The future is unpredictable. Therefore, our whole life is a risk. On the one hand, we must plan… Continue reading Directions to work with fears.

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Fear and anxiety.

“Anxiety is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.” Arthur Somers Roche _ Fear is the expectation of something specific. _ Anxiety is uncertain, but situational, "one-time." _ Existential anxiety is the expectation of a constant presence in a life… Continue reading Fear and anxiety.

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The sage Takuan had many followers. Among them was an old man, whose name no one remembered. He was a bit weird. One day, this old man sent his servant to Takuan to invite the master to a meal after the ceremony. "However modest my food is, I want Takuan to taste my boiled rice… Continue reading Kindness

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The shoot.

Stop complaining about difficulties and start shooting said the Master to the desciple. "Master, - once asked the desciple, - why there are difficulties that prevent us from reaching the goal, reject us from the chosen path, try to make us recognize our weakness?" "What you call difficulties," - Master replied, - "is in fact… Continue reading The shoot.

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Fear has many faces.

“Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” ― Marie Curie Fears of people are the same commands of the brain, designed to protect them from errors, injuries, dangerous deeds. Do not be ashamed of your fears,… Continue reading Fear has many faces.

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Own burden.

One peasant for many years every evening turned to God with the same prayer: "Lord, I suffer every day from the fact that there is no man more unfortunate than me on earth. Every day I ask myself the question, for what sins you made me the most unfortunate of people. All my life I… Continue reading Own burden.