Child-parent relationship

The wind and his love.

The wind met a beautiful flower and fell in love with it. While he tenderly caressed the flower, she responded to him with even greater love, expressed in color and scent. But it seemed little to the wind, and he decided: "If I give the flower all my strength and power, then she will give… Continue reading The wind and his love.

Child-parent relationship, from a psychological point of view, who is in control of your life, you are important

Resentment.

One of the most understandable emotions. All of us somehow took offenses in this life, and each of us offended someone. Many lives are warped by resentment, many ruined relationships, and shattered destinies. Probably, everyone would like to rewrite many pages in their life and cross out the suffered pain from it. Resentment is characterized… Continue reading Resentment.

Child-parent relationship, who is in control of your life, you are important

The 4 basic emotions.

  “There is more to a boy than what his mother sees. There is more to a boy then what his father dreams. Inside every boy lies a heart that beats. And sometimes it screams, refusing to take defeat. And sometimes his father's dreams aren't big enough, and sometimes his mother's vision isn't long enough.… Continue reading The 4 basic emotions.

Child-parent relationship, who is in control of your life, you are important

Betrayal of love. As I would like to be myself.

“ I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.” – Steve Maraboli Instead, we all suffer in one way or another of the fact that we were disliked as a child, and this did not allow ourselves to be and… Continue reading Betrayal of love. As I would like to be myself.

Child-parent relationship, who is in control of your life, you are important

Parents love

The heaviest burden that falls on the shoulders of the child - this is the lifeless life of his parents. _ Carl Gustav Jung For the child, the family becomes a kind of psychodrama, with love and hatred, jealousy and dependence, fear and longing mingle. Ambivalence reaches its peak. Parents who love and protect him… Continue reading Parents love

Child-parent relationship, who is in control of your life, you are important

The child submission.

People carry in themselves the numerous and painful experiences of the past. Uncured wounds can hamper the normal development of the person's personality, which will manifest itself in different spheres of life since they create for the traumatized person a false image of the world and its place in it. Feelings that accompany injuries and… Continue reading The child submission.

Child-parent relationship, from a psychological point of view, who is in control of your life

Child psychological traumas

A psychological trauma causes long emotional experiences and has a long psychological impact. The cause of the trauma can be any significant event for a person: deception, betrayal, disappointment, injustice, violence, a death of a loved one, loss experiences, any crisis, illness. All these events may not be traumatic if a person integrated them into… Continue reading Child psychological traumas

Child-parent relationship

Being a parent

A parent "charged" with his own self-injury often do not see or hear his child. This is the phenomenon of parental anxiety: they are not afraid of what is happening really in reality, but of what happened a long time ago, in their childhood, when they have been victims of the similar situation, defenseless and… Continue reading Being a parent

Child-parent relationship

The reflection

The child is the mirror of the family; as in a drop of water, the sun reflects, so the children reflect the moral purity of the mother and father.(Vasily Alexandrovich Sukhomlinsky). Naturally, most parents want their children to grow up happy. Generally speaking, the parent usually use two main strategies of their parenting: the first… Continue reading The reflection