from a psychological point of view, who is in control of your life

Pity.

Pity is, at first glance, a very good and necessary quality of a person. This ability to treat others with understanding, with sympathy, a desire to support in a difficult moment. Pity is caused by people who have fallen into various everyday worries, homeless people, invalids, street beggars. We regret our children, aged parents, relatives… Continue reading Pity.

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Despair.

Many years ago, the Devil decided to boast and put on public display all the tools of his craft. He neatly folded them in a glass display case and attached labels to them, so that everyone knew what it was and what the cost of each of them was. What a collection it was! There… Continue reading Despair.

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Humility and Pride.

  The word "humility" comes from the Latin humilitas (humus), which means "fertile land" or simply "earth". Anthony of Sourozh clearly defined the essence of this word: "And if you take the earth as a parable, then it lies silent, open under the sky ... And the seed she takes, and the manure and everything… Continue reading Humility and Pride.

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Envy (part2)

Personal envy is more likely to be secretly tested and concealed, considered shameful. This is either an open aggression towards the object of envy, or other forms of rejection of this person. If we consider the stages of human life, it becomes noticeable that a sense of envy is present to some extent in the… Continue reading Envy (part2)

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Making a decision.

"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.” _ Robert Frost, The Road Not Taken Every moment, we are all faced with decisive decisions for our future. Our life is influenced by the decisions we make in a more or less conscious… Continue reading Making a decision.

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Envy (part 1)

Many actions are dictated to a person, not for the sake of something, but out of spite. Envy is considered one of the seven deadly sins and the most secret feeling in the souls of people. Unlike other sins, which can be found rational justification, envy has always been considered shameful in all its manifestations,… Continue reading Envy (part 1)

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The priority and goal achievement.

Everyone hears from their childhood about the need to set goals for themselves. This council has become so familiar that it is no longer perceived as useful. And the need for goal-setting over time loses for the majority its relevance. And really, why set goals? Is the goal able to make our life better, and… Continue reading The priority and goal achievement.

Child-parent relationship, from a psychological point of view, who is in control of your life, you are important

Resentment.

One of the most understandable emotions. All of us somehow took offenses in this life, and each of us offended someone. Many lives are warped by resentment, many ruined relationships, and shattered destinies. Probably, everyone would like to rewrite many pages in their life and cross out the suffered pain from it. Resentment is characterized… Continue reading Resentment.

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The comfort zone.

In life, we constantly face situations when it is necessary to change something or even just to do something unusual and new, but the fear of the unknown often prevents us from acting. Our inner voice begins to convince us that everything is not so bad, but who knows if it will be good if… Continue reading The comfort zone.

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The 4 basic emotions.

  “There is more to a boy than what his mother sees. There is more to a boy then what his father dreams. Inside every boy lies a heart that beats. And sometimes it screams, refusing to take defeat. And sometimes his father's dreams aren't big enough, and sometimes his mother's vision isn't long enough.… Continue reading The 4 basic emotions.

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33 Erich Fromm citations about true love, happiness, freedom, anxiety and loneliness

1. The main task of man is to give life to himself, to become what he is potentially. The most important fruit of his efforts is his own personality. 2. We should not give anyone an explanation and report until our actions cause pain or infringe upon others. How many lives were destroyed by this… Continue reading 33 Erich Fromm citations about true love, happiness, freedom, anxiety and loneliness

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Betrayal of love. As I would like to be myself.

“ I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.” – Steve Maraboli Instead, we all suffer in one way or another of the fact that we were disliked as a child, and this did not allow ourselves to be and… Continue reading Betrayal of love. As I would like to be myself.

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Parents love

The heaviest burden that falls on the shoulders of the child - this is the lifeless life of his parents. _ Carl Gustav Jung For the child, the family becomes a kind of psychodrama, with love and hatred, jealousy and dependence, fear and longing mingle. Ambivalence reaches its peak. Parents who love and protect him… Continue reading Parents love

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Stop wanting to please the whole world!

Sometimes we try to show the world that we are impeccable in the hope that we are always appreciated and accepted by everyone. But the truth is that we cannot please everyone and we should not even try. “When we turn around & come face to face with our destiny, we discover that words (spoken)… Continue reading Stop wanting to please the whole world!

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The child submission.

People carry in themselves the numerous and painful experiences of the past. Uncured wounds can hamper the normal development of the person's personality, which will manifest itself in different spheres of life since they create for the traumatized person a false image of the world and its place in it. Feelings that accompany injuries and… Continue reading The child submission.