Child-parent relationship, who is in control of your life, you are important

The 4 basic emotions.

  “There is more to a boy than what his mother sees. There is more to a boy then what his father dreams. Inside every boy lies a heart that beats. And sometimes it screams, refusing to take defeat. And sometimes his father's dreams aren't big enough, and sometimes his mother's vision isn't long enough.… Continue reading The 4 basic emotions.

Child-parent relationship, who is in control of your life, you are important

Parents love

The heaviest burden that falls on the shoulders of the child - this is the lifeless life of his parents. _ Carl Gustav Jung For the child, the family becomes a kind of psychodrama, with love and hatred, jealousy and dependence, fear and longing mingle. Ambivalence reaches its peak. Parents who love and protect him… Continue reading Parents love

Child-parent relationship, who is in control of your life, you are important

The child submission.

People carry in themselves the numerous and painful experiences of the past. Uncured wounds can hamper the normal development of the person's personality, which will manifest itself in different spheres of life since they create for the traumatized person a false image of the world and its place in it. Feelings that accompany injuries and… Continue reading The child submission.

Child-parent relationship

Being a parent

A parent "charged" with his own self-injury often do not see or hear his child. This is the phenomenon of parental anxiety: they are not afraid of what is happening really in reality, but of what happened a long time ago, in their childhood, when they have been victims of the similar situation, defenseless and… Continue reading Being a parent

Child-parent relationship

The reflection

The child is the mirror of the family; as in a drop of water, the sun reflects, so the children reflect the moral purity of the mother and father.(Vasily Alexandrovich Sukhomlinsky). Naturally, most parents want their children to grow up happy. Generally speaking, the parent usually use two main strategies of their parenting: the first… Continue reading The reflection