fairy tales for grown up

The potatoes.

The disciple asked the teacher: "You are so wise." You are always in a good mood, never angry. Help me to be like that. The teacher agreed and asked the pupil to bring some potatoes and a transparent bag. "If you get angry with someone and harbor resentment," the teacher said, "then take one of… Continue reading The potatoes.

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Pity.

Pity is, at first glance, a very good and necessary quality of a person. This ability to treat others with understanding, with sympathy, a desire to support in a difficult moment. Pity is caused by people who have fallen into various everyday worries, homeless people, invalids, street beggars. We regret our children, aged parents, relatives… Continue reading Pity.

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What is better…

One woman complained to a neighbor about a friend who had offended her. The neighbor reassured her and persuaded her to forgive her friend. "Forgive her?" But how is it? After what she did to me? She's so mean! No, I cannot forgive evil, - said the woman. - And anyway, why should I love… Continue reading What is better…

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Despair.

Many years ago, the Devil decided to boast and put on public display all the tools of his craft. He neatly folded them in a glass display case and attached labels to them, so that everyone knew what it was and what the cost of each of them was. What a collection it was! There… Continue reading Despair.

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Envy (part2)

Personal envy is more likely to be secretly tested and concealed, considered shameful. This is either an open aggression towards the object of envy, or other forms of rejection of this person. If we consider the stages of human life, it becomes noticeable that a sense of envy is present to some extent in the… Continue reading Envy (part2)

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Envy (part 1)

Many actions are dictated to a person, not for the sake of something, but out of spite. Envy is considered one of the seven deadly sins and the most secret feeling in the souls of people. Unlike other sins, which can be found rational justification, envy has always been considered shameful in all its manifestations,… Continue reading Envy (part 1)

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Resentment.

One of the most understandable emotions. All of us somehow took offenses in this life, and each of us offended someone. Many lives are warped by resentment, many ruined relationships, and shattered destinies. Probably, everyone would like to rewrite many pages in their life and cross out the suffered pain from it. Resentment is characterized… Continue reading Resentment.

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The 4 basic emotions.

  “There is more to a boy than what his mother sees. There is more to a boy then what his father dreams. Inside every boy lies a heart that beats. And sometimes it screams, refusing to take defeat. And sometimes his father's dreams aren't big enough, and sometimes his mother's vision isn't long enough.… Continue reading The 4 basic emotions.

fairy tales for grown up

The bet.

At the edge of the field stood Love and Separation and admired the young couple. Separation says to Love: "I bet I'll separate them!" To which the Love replied: "Wait, let me make just one approach to them, and then you can approach them as much as you want. So and then we'll see if… Continue reading The bet.

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Betrayal of love. As I would like to be myself.

“ I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.” – Steve Maraboli Instead, we all suffer in one way or another of the fact that we were disliked as a child, and this did not allow ourselves to be and… Continue reading Betrayal of love. As I would like to be myself.

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Being in Right.

There are two different families in the neighboring houses. In one are always quarreling, while in the other always have silence and mutual understanding. Once, envying a peaceful neighbor's family, the wife tells her husband: "Go to the neighbors and see what they do, that they are always all right." He went, hid and watched.… Continue reading Being in Right.

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Parents love

The heaviest burden that falls on the shoulders of the child - this is the lifeless life of his parents. _ Carl Gustav Jung For the child, the family becomes a kind of psychodrama, with love and hatred, jealousy and dependence, fear and longing mingle. Ambivalence reaches its peak. Parents who love and protect him… Continue reading Parents love

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Stop wanting to please the whole world!

Sometimes we try to show the world that we are impeccable in the hope that we are always appreciated and accepted by everyone. But the truth is that we cannot please everyone and we should not even try. “When we turn around & come face to face with our destiny, we discover that words (spoken)… Continue reading Stop wanting to please the whole world!

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The child submission.

People carry in themselves the numerous and painful experiences of the past. Uncured wounds can hamper the normal development of the person's personality, which will manifest itself in different spheres of life since they create for the traumatized person a false image of the world and its place in it. Feelings that accompany injuries and… Continue reading The child submission.

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A real man ?

How do you grow a male child at the time of female freedom? How do we teach respect for women, sharing family tasks, overcoming old stereotypes and rigidity of roles, without renouncing to make them "a real man"? And above all: what is "a real man" today? The mothers today are balancing at the last… Continue reading A real man ?